Gifts for Gals: How to Surprise Your Wife or Girlfriend
There is something deeply gratifying about going out of your way to make the lady in your life feel special. Making her day with a little bit of thoughtfulness and planning not only reaffirms your role in her life as Mr. Right, but also infuses reassurance and newfound intimacy into the relationship. If you are looking for new ideas on how to surprise your girlfriend or wife, consider circumventing the tired cliches of flowers and chocolates and opting for gifts that will pique her interest, appeal to her taste buds and turn her on. Your shopping dollar can go a whole lot further by choosing gifts for women that invoke the senses, engage the mind and call for physically sensuous interaction. The look of amazement on her face when you present her with adult toys, intimate games, sensuous reading and provocatively-named wines is priceless. It means that she is quickly realizing that you are genuinely interested in her pleasure and that you want her to experience fulfillment and joy in a trusting relationship.
The Gift of Good Listening
When looking for ideas on how to surprise your girlfriend, make your choices based on statements or ideas from prior conversations. Not only will you avoid an uncomfortable situation by giving an inappropriate gift, she will have definitive proof that you were actually listening during all those late night moments of whispered sweet nothings. If you know for a fact that she loves massage and scented candles, you can help set a romantic mood with some sensual massage candles. If she has expressed interest in exploring soft bondage with you, encourage her to explore this world of pleasure with an introductory play kit designed to let her imagination run wild. If she makes no qualms about pleasuring herself when you are not around, empower her even further with a massage wand or a discreet vibrator that can be secretly used whenever or wherever she likes.
Look for Hidden Clues
The right idea on how to surprise your girlfriend or wife is not always obvious. If she has not made her secret desires blatantly obvious, think back to potential clues and hints within the context of her personality. If she always jumps at the chance to dress up in costumes and wear expressive jewelry, consider surprising her with some red leg wrap garters, gold chain waist jewelry or glittering shoulder adornments. If she has an alpha personality and insists on being “in the driver’s seat” so to speak, perhaps a mutually pleasing vibrator worn by her is a good choice. If she is a literary type with a particularly sensual character, some women’s erotica stories or even a text on female domination could be just the thing. If pleasureable and visual fixation tends to frequently focus on her upper erogenous zones, you could surprise her with some fuzzy nipple clamps or even a set of black burlesque pasties with tassels. If she loves a glass of wine with dinner or simply to relax after work, try giving her a bottle with a zesty name that reflects her personality like Foreplay Chardonnay, Naked on Roller Skates, Risk Taker Red or Tease Riesling.
Seduce Her with a Trail of Intrigue
If you’re looking for ideas on how to surprise your girlfriend or wife and you like a good challenge, consider orchestrating a romantic production. After all, if this is an anniversary or birthday she is most likely expecting a little something, right? Why not knock her socks off with a multi-phase scenario led along by love notes that direct her to increasingly enticing and sensual gifts? This sort of a gift package is known as a Sexy Pairing — a gift set for your gal complete with sexy wine, adult toys, intimate gifts and even adult books and games.
Imagine this: she comes home to find an uncorked bottle of Naked Winery 2014 Foreplay Chardonnay waiting for her with a note instructing her to pour herself a glass, have a sip and then go look on the living room coffee table. There you have placed some intimate items such as Bijoux Indiscrets Poeme Body Paint or some ON Ultra Natural Arousal Oil along with a note telling her to go take a look in the bathroom. There she could find some useful showertime love making accessories like a Sportsheets Single Locking Suction Foot Rest or even some Sportsheets Suction Cup Handcuffs accompanied by another note instructing her to make her way to the bedroom. There you could place some more exciting items to pique her arousal such as a Tantric Panty Vibrator, a Fence Net Stocking and Garter Belt and some Fifty Shades of Grey Soothe Me After Spanking Cream. At this point, then, you could make your entrance — just make sure you are prepared for a ravishingly great time.
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